The New Colossus
Not like the brazen giant of Greek fame,
with conquering limbs astride from land to land;
Here at our sea-washed, sunset gates shall stand
a mighty woman with a torch, whose flame
is the imprisoned lightning, and her name
Mother of Exiles. From her beacon-hand
Glows world-wide welcome; her mild eyes command
The air-bridged harbor that twin cities frame,
“Keep, ancient lands, your storied pomp!” cries she
with silent lips. “Give me your tired, your poor,
Your huddled masses yearning to breathe free,
The wretched refuse of your teeming shore,
Send these, the homeless, tempest-tost to me,
I lift my lamp beside the golden door!”
Lady Liberty knows a woman has equal rights and that they are afforded to them without giving up any of her freedom to choose what’s in her best interest. Respectfully, if you notice, she stands prouldy by her own power. Even she doesn’t need a man to do this. And I bet this burns your butts off you male supremacists know that she was the chosen gender as the icon of freedom and justice.
Nancy Shafer is on fire and she’s got the will and determination to stop the corruption that’s going on with Child Protective Services. She is coming forth to expose how CPS are nothing but corrupt pims using our children as whores to gain money to keep their house of horros alive.
Ms. Shafer sees how CPS is failing to act in the children’s best interest and how it keeps their department running. For all of us battered protective mothers that risk losing custody or have lost custody of our children to our batterers, she gives us hope that the corrupted, painful and dangerous ways CPS puts our children in harms way will come to an end.
Here is a URL to her site where she clearly outlines how she will be fighting to get CPS to come into rules and regualations with accountability that will protect a child’s safety and well being while protecting the rights of “FIT” parents from having their children illegally kidnapped. To get CPS to change it’s policies would have a great domino effect on all other areas of our system who we depend on to protect our children. Please, go to her site and read what she proposes and leave a comment, tell your story and support her for helping us.
And, here’s a video where you can watch and listen to Ms. Shafer as she explains her outrage against CPS.
Richard Gardener, what a piece of terrorfying art this man was. His (PAS) Parent Alien Syndrome theory has served to kill sincere battered mothers from protecting her children in family court since it became the fad. A fad designed by men who commit acts of domestic violence and/or marital rape against their wives, who abuse and/or molest their children, and use PAS as a tool to manipulate the courts to turn a blind eye to his criminal behavior so they can avoid the harsh consequences of their wrong agains their family. They forgot to toss Richard Garner’s PAS junk science manual in his coffin before they closed the lid so it would be burried forever with that woman hating sick bastard! I guess six feet ain’t all that far down………we could still do it.
What makes matters worse is that there is a money monger greed that has captivated the souls of the judges in our family courts, the Guardian Ad Litems and the lawyers….the love of money has turned their hearts cold and they no longer feel sympathy and compassion for the battered mothers and abused children, of whom they are supposed to protect. After all, if the batterer was properly investigated and found guilty, then the battered mother could gain sole custody and restrictions upon the batterer would be set in place to protect the childrens best interest….thus, done deal and there would be an end to these parents coming into court.
I am most sure that if any corrupt judge, Guardian Ad Litem or lawyer reads this, they would be writhing with anger towards yet another blogger exposing their illegal ways of remaining gainfully employed. I am equally sure that the battering husband/father would lose his temper, breaking something or taking his anger out on the most available person he could find….after all, if the legal corruption gets exposed, so does his gig, and if his gig is exposed he risks losing his ability to continue abusing his family….worse yet, pay childsupport.
What we have going on here is an absolute sadistic assault against the human rights of mothers and children that are clearly spelled out in our Universal Declaration of Human Rights!!! Richard Gardner’s PAS “JUNK SCIENCE” theory makes a blanket statement that when women bring allegations of abuse against the father, she should be presumed to be a hysterical liar, and special attention to her allegations should be understood as her attempt to alienate her children from the father.
Read this you Richard Gardner wanna bes and male supremacists:
- All are equal before the law and are entitled without any discrimination to equal protection of the law. All are entitled to equal protection against any discrimination in violation of this Declaration and against any incitement to such discrimination.
- Everyone has the right to an effective remedy by the competent national tribunals for acts violating the fundamental rights granted him by the constitution or by law.
I bet all you Richard Gardner followers spawned by his sadistic and sick hate for women, just cringe when you read that even a MOTHER has equal rights in family court to have her allegations of any acts of violence or sex crimes that was done to her or her children by her significant other/husband……without discrimination in regards to her gender…..to be properly considered and investigated……and be given an effective remedy for her and her children that protects them from further abuse……if there is clear evidence that proves her allegations to be true!
Ah, but if Richard Gardner’s PAS junk science alone fails to hide this outright attack on a mother’s equal right to protect her and her children in family court, there is this additional weapon…….
A “friendly parent” provision. This provision states that if one parent dares to speak up about any concerns against the other parent’s ill-behavior in regards to the ability to parent, the concerned parent risks losing custody of their children. The intent of this provision was for children to be placed with the parent who was most likely to nurture the bonds between their children and the other parent. But, it has DANGEROUSLY been used to punish a concerned parent when they allege acts of domestic violence or sex crimes by thr other parent. Most often than not, it’s the mother that expresses such concern and the majority of honestly concerned mothers presumed liars and coaching her children to lie about their father as well.
Whatta crock of crap this is!!!!!! This not only violates a mother’s human rights but it also violates her due process rights in the family court. If a mother voices concerns about the father’s level of contact with their children because of allegations of abuse of any form, she has full rights to do so in any court of law. If the father accuses her of lying, she has the right of due process clearly defined in the United State Constitution……..
Section 1. All persons born or naturalized in the United States, and subject to the jurisdiction thereof, are citizens of the United States and of the State wherein they reside. No State shall make or enforce any law which shall abridge the privileges or immunities of citizens of the United States; nor shall any State deprive any person of life, liberty, or property, without due process of law; nor deny to any person within its jurisdiction the equal protection of the laws.
So, in this case of where a father accuses the mother of lying, lying in court is purjury and is a serious crime. He has no right to use any laws that deprive her right to defend herself in a court of law and deny her equal protection of the laws that protects her from being falsely accused of lying. Our family courts and Guardian Ad Litems are not the proper authorities to deal with criminal matters. When allegations of abuse or lying are brought up, then the case should immediately be placed over to a dependency court, where the allegations can be tried ruled on by those judges, who are presumed to be experienced in crimal matters.
No family court judge should be allowed to make judgements against against the concerned parent when the concerned parent is not given a right to bring proper evidence to support the allegations, provided through dependency court. When family court judges and Guardian Ad Litems are given illegal power to make a ruling on a criminal matter during a custody battle, it gives too much power to deem a concerned mother the unfriendly parent and will help the abusive father to obtain the best asset of all…..the children. Once these fathers has sole custody of the children, they know they have completely taken away what mattered most to the mother. Thus, he was given the ultimate way to continue to abuse and control her forever…..her silence.
A silence born from fear, a fear that if she continues to express her concerns about the father’s ill-behavior affecting the safety and well being of her children, she will risk losing all ability to remain in contact with her children. Her absolute fear is having all forms of contact with her children taken away, because she knows that if that should happen there is no way she will find out if any harm is being done to her children by the father, thus rendering her useless to be able to say or do anything that will protect the safety and well being of her children. Too many children live in constant terror from being abused and/or sexually molested….worse yet, killed by their abusive fathers. Unless the protective mother is given the full freedom to speak up about her concerns against the father, without fear of her motherhood being fully denied, her children will not know what it’s like to live in a home safe and uncondtionally loved.
This tyrany against protective mothers has got to stop! It will not stop until everyone unless everyone is pro-active in supporting her right to protect the safety and well being of her children in the family court. As the sayings goes, “Nothing changes if nothing changes.” If any person does nothing to help bring the urgent changes that are needed to to give power to a protective mother to exercise all her rights to protect her and her children from the abusive father, then such person is in partnership with the dangerous corruption of those that violate and deny her rights to do so.
Which side are you on?
ALL OF THIS IS US WOMEN’S RIGHTS, TOO!!!!
WHEREAS recognition of the inherent dignity and of the equal and inalienable rights of all members of the human family is the foundation of freedom, justice and peace in the world,
WHEREAS disregard and contempt for human rights have resulted in barbarous acts which have outraged the conscience of mankind, and the advent of a world in which human beings shall freedom of speech and belief and freedom from fear and want has been proclaimed as the highest aspiration of the common people,
WHEREAS it is essential, if man is not be be compelled to have recourse, as a last resort, to rebellion against tyranny and oppression, that human rights should be protected by the rule of law,
WHEREAS it is essential to promote the development of friendly relations between nations,
WHEREAS the peoples of the United Nations have in the Charter reaffirmed their faith in fundamental human rights in the dignity and worth of the human person and in the equal rights of men and WOWMEN and have determined to promote social progress and better standards of life in larger freedom,
WHEREAS Member States have pledged themselves to achieve, in co-operation with the United Nations, the promotion of universal respect for and observance of human rights and fundamental freedoms,
WHEREAS a common understanding of these rights and freedoms is of the greatest importance for the full realization of this pledge,
NOW THEREFORE THE GENERAL ASSEMBLY PROCLAIMS
THIS UNIVERSAL DECLARATION OF HUMAN RIGHTS
as a common standard of achievement for all peoples and all nations, to the end that every individual and every organ of society, keeping this Declaration constantly in mind, shall strive by teaching and education to promote respect for these rights and freedoms and by progressive measures, national and international, to secure their universal and effective recognition and observance, both among the peoples of Member States themselves and among the peoples of territories under their jurisdiction.
Article 1 All human beings are born free and equal in dignity and rights. They are endowed with reason and reason and conscience and should act towards one another in a spirit of brotherhood.
Article 2 Everyone is entitled to all the rights and freedoms set forth in this Declaration, without distinction of any kind,such as race, colour, sex, language, religion, political or other opinions, national or social origins, property, birth or other status.
Furthermore, no distinction shall be made on the basis of the political, jurisdictional or international status of the country or territory to which a person belongs, whether it be independent, trust, non-self-governing or under any other limitation of sovereignty.
Article 3 Everyone has the right to life, liberty and security of person.
Article 4 No one shall be held in slavery or servitude; slavery and the slave trade shall be prohibited in all their forms.
Article 5 No one shall be subjected to torture or to cruel, inhuman or degrading treatment or punishment.
Article 6 Everyone has the right to recognition everywhere as a person before the law.
Article 7 All are equal before the law and are entitled without any discrimination to equal protection under the law. All are entitled to equal protection against any discrimination in violation of this Declaration and against any incitement to such discrimination.
Article 8 Everyone has the right to an effective remedy by the competent national tribunals for acts violating the fundamental rights granted him by the constitution or by law.
Article 10 Everyone is entitled in full equality to a fair and public hearing by an independent and impartial tribunal in the determination of his rights and obligations and of any criminal charge against him.
Article 11 (1) Everyone charged with a penal offence has the right to be presumed innocent until proved guilty according to law in a public trial at which he has had all the guarantees necessary for his defence.
(2) No one shall be held guilty of any penal offence on account of any act or omission which did not constitute a penal offence, under national or international law, at the time when it was committed. Nor shall a heavier penalty be imposed than the one that was applicable at the time the penal offence was committed.
Article 12 No one shall be subjected to arbitrary interference with his privacy, family, home or correspondence, nor to attacks upon his honor and reputations. Everyone has the right to the protection of the law against such interference or attacks.
Article 13 (1) Everyone has the right to freedom of movement and esidence within the borders of each State.
(2) Everyone has the right to leave any country, including his own, and to return to his country.
Article 14 (1) Everyone has the right to seek and to enjoy in other countries asylum from persecution.
(2) This right may not be invoked in the case of prosecutions genuinely arising from non-political crimes or from acts contrary to the purposes and principles of the United Nations.
Article 15 (1) Everyone has the right to a nationality.
(2) No one shall be arbitrarily deprived of his nationality nor denied the right to change his nationality.
Article 16 (1) Men and WOMWN of full age, without any limitation due to race, nationality or religion, have the right to marry and to found a family. They are entitled to equal rights as to marriage, during marriage and at its dissolution.
(2) Marriage shall be entered into only with the free and full consent of the intending spouses.
(3) The family is the natural and fundamental group unit of society and is entitled to protection by society and the State.
Article 17 (1) Everyone has the right to own property alone as well as in association with others.
(2) No one shall be arbitrarily deprived of his property.
Article 18 Everyone has the right to freedom of thought, conscience and religion; this right includes freedom to change his religion or belief, and freedom, either alone or in community with others and in public or private, to manifest his religion or belief in teaching, practice, worship and observance.
Article 19 Everyone has the right to freedom of opinion and expression; this right includes freedom to hold opinions without interference and to seek, receive and impart information and ideas through any media and regardless of frontiers.
Article 20 (1) Everyone has the right to freedom of peaceful assembly and association.
(2) No one may be compelled to belong to an association.
Article 21 (1) Everyone has the right to take part in the government of his country, directly or through freely chosen representatives.
(2) Everyone has the right of equal access to public service in his country.
(3) The will of the people shall be the basis of the authority of government; this will shall be expressed in periodic and genuine elections which shall be by universal and equal suffrage and shall be held by secret vote or by equivalent free voting procedures.
Article 22 Everyone, as a member of society, has the right to social security and is entitled to realization, through national effort and international co-operation and in accordance with the organisation and resources of each State, of the economic, social and cultural rights indispensable for his dignity and the free development of his personality.
Article 23 (1) Everyone has the right to work, to free choice of employment, to just and favourable conditions of work and to protection against unemployment.
(2) Everyone, without any discrimination, has the right to equal pay for equal work.
(3) Everyone who works has the right to just and favourable remuneration insuring for himself and his family an existence worthy of human dignity, and supplemented, if necessary, by other means of social protection.
(4) Everyone has the right to form and to join trade unions for the protection of his interests.
Article 24 Everyone has the right to rest and leisure, including reasonable limitation of working hours and periodic holidays with pay.
Article 25 (1) Everyone has the right to a standard of living adequate for the health and well-being of himself and his family, including food, clothing, housing and medical care and necessary social services, and the right to security in the event of unemployment, sickness, disability, widowhood, old age or other lack of livelihood in circumstances beyond his control.
(2) MOTHERHOOD and CHILDHOOD are entitled to special care and assistance. All children, whether born in or out of wedlock, shall enjoy the same social protection.
Article 26 (1) Everyone has the right to education. Education shall be free, at least in the elementary and fundamental stages. Elementary education shall be compulsory. Technical and professional education shall be made generally available and higher education shall be equally accessible to all on the basis of merit.
(2) Education shall be directed to the full development of the human personality and to the strengthening of respect for human rights and fundamental freedoms. It shall promote understanding, tolerance and friendship among all nations, racial or religious groups, and shall further the activities of the United Nations for the maintenance of peace.
(3) Parents have a prior right to choose the kind of education that shall be given to their children.
Article 27 (1) Everyone has the right freely to participate in the cultural life of the community, to enjoy the arts and to share in scientific advancement and its benefits.
(2) Everyone has the right to the protection of the moral and material interests resulting from any scientific, literary or artistic production of which he is the author.
Article 28 Everyone is entitled to a social and international order in which the rights and freedoms set forth in this Declaration can be fully realized.
Article 29 (1) Everyone has duties to the community in which alone the free and full development of his personality is possible.
(2) In the exercise of his rights and freedoms, everyone shall be subject only to such limitations as are determined by law solely for the purpose of securing due recognition and respect for the rights and freedoms of others and of meeting the just requirements of morality, public order and the general welfare in a democratic society/
(3) These rights and freedoms may in no case be exercised contrary to the purposes and principles of the United Nations.
Article 30 Nothing in this Declaration may be interpreted as implying for any State, group or person any right to engage in any activity or to perform any act aimed at the destruction of any of the rights and freedoms set forth herein.
An abuser will use any form of brainwashing on their victim in order to get them to accept the blame for the hideous crimes they do to them. The abuser knows that once their victim is fully groomed to believing that they are at fault for the abuse, the abuser can now depend on their victim to continuing to live in the shameful secrecy of abuse. Without realizing it, the victim is giving the abuser the power and control over them and enabling their abuser to hide their torturous behavior. Thus, the abuse continues in it’s vicous cycle.
Forbid if you should be an abused mother trying to seek a divorce and custody of your children. More often than not, if a mother exposes her abuser for what he really is and begs the court for mercy to save her children from the abuser, she’s re-victimized by her abuser through the court system. She’s automatically accused of being unstable and obsessed with her motherhood and using her children wrongly to give her a sense of well being. Then, she’s accused of lying about him to try and deceitfully sway the court and gain favor. Then the “parent friendly act” is used against her proof the children’s best interest is to be placed with the father. What cinches up this decision, is if the woman has a lower standard of education – work – and home in comparison to her abusers superior standard of living. When the gavel is slammed down and that horrifying decision to place her children in the custodial care of her abuser, her abuser now has the ultimate weapon of abuse and claims victory over her.
I know all too well the pain, guilt and fear that comes with being abused. There is one message that I want to stress to all who are suffering and keeping silent from the shame from being abused. The message is, that it’s not your fault! By accepting this blame and remaining in your prison of silence, you give power to the abuse to control your ability to break free and live a life full of joy, peace, protection and feeling unconditionally loved. Please, speak out and seek help, so that you can stop being a victim and start being a survivor.
To all you fathers at the Fathers Manifesto……your male chaevnist ways riddled with abuse and a need to dominate all woman kind are coming to an absolute and eternal end, wait and see! We women are gonna bring you down, boys!
Yep, they are out there. Just take a look at this quote from the Fathers Manifesto …….
Not so. If we are to deal meaningfully with crime, what must be seen is its relationship with the female-headed family. Most criminals come from female-headed families. Most gang members come from female-headed families. Most addicts come from female-headed families. Most rapists come from female-headed families. Most educational failures come from female-headed families. Every presidential assassin before Hinckley came from a female-headed family or one in which he had an impossibly bad relationship with his father. Most illegitimate births occur to females who themselves grew up in female-headed families.
If we are to deal meaningfully with crime, what we must do is reduce the number of female-headed families; what we must do is prevent the divorce courts from expelling half of society’s fathers from their homes; what we must do is terminate a welfare system which displaces millions of men from the principal male role, that of family-provider. What we must do is make the father the head of the family.
More if you care to read the entire page http://www.christianparty.net/garbgen.htm What the hell are they talking about? With their thinking, no woman in her right mind is going to want to get near them! What’s damn near impossible is to figure out rather I want to laugh or puke my guts out over them. I have no compassion or sympathy for these monsters whatsoever.
You freaking morons at Fathers Manifesto……your right to be the patriarchial head of a household is a shared one and when you earn it by behaving yourselves in a safe and loving fashion and when you honestly want what’s best for your woman and children. And, this indoctrinating your religion that’s full of hate and bigotry against women and a need to brainwash men to believing they must be lord and master over women, is more than a danger to society…it’s absolutely phsychotic!
If this is a bit above your IQ to understand……let me explain it like this. Go off to some remote Island and create this gorgeous utopia that floats around inside your heads of dominating us females…..and be sure to stop by your local adult store and pick up a blow up doll. You’re gonna need that, because none of us real live women are going with you! If you can’t afford to buy one, look on Craigslist in their free section. If no luck, I am sure your local feminist would be more than happy to buy you one.
You poor, pathetic, insecure, mentally deranged assholes! You are lunatics! Only you give us the power to destroy you by your own paranoid bitter attitude against us for realizing our rights to freedom from domination from control-freaks like you. You all act like spoiled rotten baby boys that didn’t like getting sent to the corner for time out for your bad behavior by your momma. Perhaps, this is what it’s really about. You never grew up and took responsibility for the crap you create and still harbor unfair resenment towards your mothers for trying to help you become healthy – happy – and loving men when you got older.
Until you put on big boy boxers and work through your own shit, you will always think you have this insane given birthright to breathe your venom upon any woman and expect her to take the blame when she dares to leave your sorry asses for violating her. All because of your residual juvenile hate against your mother for when she punished you for violating her! Grow the fuck up!
You guys are really hanging yourselves with your own ropes. And just how Hitler and his posse were brought down, so shall you!